The Platinum Rule
The Golden Rule: Treat others how you
wish to be treated
is very familiar to us. Although the intentions of this rule are good, it seems
odd to think that everyone wants to be treated the same way that you do.
We are
all unique and connect in different ways. For instance, some may like to
receive information in quick bullet points while others prefer it more
detailed.
Let us
introduce the Platinum Rule: Treat
others how they want to be treated.
When we butt
heads with others in our relationships whether it is with friends, family or co-workers,
it is usually because you are both processing what is being said differently.
The message being conveyed all relies on whoever is delivering it.
If someone does
not understand you or they are frustrated or get offended, brainstorm how they
may receive the message better. You will get to know the people who surround
you better because you are constantly trying to figure out how they work and
why they do what they do.
The world
could be a better place if we all make a better effort at understanding how
others like to be treated. Adapt to those around you instead of bulldozing
through your days being exactly how you are and expecting others to cater to
you. Decrease the conflict in your life and begin creating positive connections
with people!
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